On Father’s Day

“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”
-Mark Twain

And then as some twenty years and more pass, I marvel at how he even tolerated me in the first place.

Fatherhood is not an easy task, no matter how it may appear to the boy of fourteen. Too many try it that shouldn’t. When you are blessed with a good father, it is wise to be thankful. On father’s day and every other day as well.

 

On Understanding Human Nature

When we remember we are all mad, the mysteries of life disappear and life stands explained”
– From Mark Twain’s Notebook

We might watch the television news, or read a newspaper, or browse to a favorite blog and learn of the days events. Upon doing so way may mutter to ourselves, “has the world gone mad?”.

Now is the time to remember that the world has always been mad, and we are bit players in that madness. It doesn’t really change anything, but it may help us get through another day.

On Doing What You’re Good At

The exercise of an extraordinary gift is the supremest pleasure in life”
-Mark Twain 

One need not be a Mark Twain to consider themselves in possession of an extraordinary gift, though his was certainly just that.

We all come into this world with a unique and extraordinary gift. When recognized, nurtured, and pursued we can surely find satisfaction and delight; perhaps even a glimmer true happiness.

On Human Respect

“With us no individual is born with a right to look down upon his neighbor and hold him in contempt.”
-Mark Twain, “Americans and English” speech

And in so doing we forfeit any moral authority to which we would ever hope to lay claim.

Whatever the source of contempt for another, it is not a right nor a source of pride or justification, but merely a failing of the human spirit.

 

On Friends and Enemies

“It takes your enemy and your friend, working together, to hurt you to the heart; the one to slander you and the other to get the news to you”
   Mark Twain

An enemy will start a malicious rumor about your good charater; a friend will repeat it to your face.

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On Being a Middle-Aged Optimist

“At 50 a man can be an ass without being an optimist but not an optimist without being an ass.”

When we are young and immortal, the world holds nothing but possibility. We see the world as what it can be.

By the time we’re in our middle years, it seems prudent to look at the world as it really is.

Even so, every man grown into “mature” adulthood still harbors that brash young man, dreaming of how it will be when the world is at our feet.

Best to keep the young man under wraps. But keep him.

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On Parting Ways With Fundamentalism

“True irreverence is disrespect for another man’s god”
-Mark Twain’s Notebook

God is never found through disrespect, fear, or contempt. The strength of anyone’s faith is only diminished by hating another for theirs.

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On Travel and Tolerance

“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.”
-Innocents Abroad

Often it is that the opinions we hold of ourselves and others get stale when we sit in one place for too long. Fear of the unknown is best conquered by striving to know what lies beyond our own narrow view of the world. Travel teaches tolerance to those willing to learn it.

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